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Don't you agree? It's good to be feeling - or am I being hopeful? - that feeling of FALL that is in the air!
With that, is the start of school... everywhere! Some of you are already in the thick of it. But. Today my son has started his first full day of school - First Grade. And I, I tear up.. sniff, sniff.
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These muffins aren't much to look at, but they sure are tasty. And. It's a great recipe to use up "older" applesauce - should you have some left over from the previous season. I know many of you, myself included, are about to start canning or freezing up *new* batches of Applesauce for the winter.
Can't wait!!
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Here we are! It's Back to School time!!
As a mom, what are your thoughts? Your expectations? How are you feeling?
If you're at all like me, you find yourself... Nervous, Excited, Uncertain, Unsettled, Ready, Confident...overwhelmed. Yes! I feel all of that and then some.
What did you think of that little quip I found, ironically enough, in one of my cookbooks? It was the one I shared on Friday. Let's read it again.
Boy at the chalkboard to his teacher: "I'm not an underachiever. You're an over-expecter."
Like I said before, this little quip; it made me want to both smile and squirm simultaneously. I can be this... guilty as charged! The over-expecter. While expectations are not always good, neither are they all that bad. I can easily place a lot of expectations on folks that can quickly make those people seem "a true disappointment".
The same against situations. Ideas. Plans. etc. However, I also want things to work out - for the best. As expected. Meaning. Things coming out of the kitchen or my sewing room and especially within the functionality of my vehicle...they better impress... you know what I mean?
Over the summer - we've been working with our kids - preparing them to get back into School! Writing, reviewing Math and even reading, for my son. Yes! My kindergartener son can read. He says he doesn't enjoy it - AT ALL! But, I am praying that this will be a great year for my son to grasp how - what he thinks is SO boring - to be instead, enjoyable and fun! I'm ubber excited for my daughter to get out and go "to Pre-school"... I know she's going to love it! and yet, I'm sad. This is going to make her grow her up so fast.
My two year old is going to feel "so lost" without her big sister around - all of the time!! I'm expecting to have a little bit more of a shadow, at my heels, than I already do. ;) And, that is quite alright..
At the same time, it's been rough - this preparation bit. I wonder if all of this "bucking" and "fighting", from my son, to get to it, grasp it, enjoy it... is truly because we might expect too much of him. My daughter was/is showing some of those same signs...I'm not sure if it's because she sees it come out of her brother, or what? I don't know. Then again. I KNOW they are fully capable... and so let the encouragement and insisting/pressure begin. (said, tongue in cheek)
Expectations are good for us. They are our boundaries in a sense. (Micah 6:8)
But - at the same time... when I, as a mom, over expect... over demand...over insist... I will ultimately face overt disappointment. I will have a bunch of, what will appear to be, little underachievers on my hands. Yikes!
I highly admire many of you who homeschool your children. I know a lot of you who read here are in "that community". And, maybe one day I will join you. Who knows for sure.
Currently our decision - as a family - is to send our children to both a private Christian preschool and to the local Public school. Some days I really wish we were a homeschooling family and then on other days I can't even imagine that possibility, at all... and it's then that I'm so glad I don't. All that to say is this, you ... you (you know who you are!) inspire me!
However, these thoughts of schooling at home are in the deep places of my heart, places that result in prayers being prayed continuously. I'm confident that if it (homeschooling) is meant to happen, at all, for our family then - it will. And God will make that clear! Very clear.
It just makes me wonder how you honestly do it? I know it is not apart from the Grace of God...I'm sure of that.
So tell me!
Do you meet your own expectations as a teacher-mom? What are some of your (own, personal) expectations when it comes to your kids in school? What are some of your favorite memories and stories of being in school, for yourself? Lunch ideas? (I'll need some..) and what aspirations or tidbits of encouragement can you share?
I would love to hear your thoughts. Hurry... before the bell rings!! ;)
My mom used to use that expression all of the time...and many others. She was full of these sort of one-liners. Anyway. Speaking of my mom! I was thinking about this the other day. My mom packed a lunch for my dad every single work-day of their 24 years of marriage, until he passed away. She had nine kids, of which, I'm the oldest. And so, she packed school lunches every. single. day. for all nine of us kids as we each went through 12 years of school.. It blows my mind! Some days.. when I think about.. we helped but still...
Talk about commitment and steadfastness... to her family. I really appreciate my mom!!
In preparing for this Mugs & Muffins post today - I had high hopes that a certain friend of mine would be able to guest post today. That expectation fell flat when she had to decline -and I completely respect her for her reasons. On the flip side... the GIVEAWAY that I had in mind for today - came through. I can tell you - I have never been more excited than I am to be able to get this book into your heart and hands.
If I ever were to fully feel motivated and called to homeschool - it would be because of this lady right here. Talk about living it out and living through it -in the thick and thin - enough to talk about it. WOW! And... there are plenty of photos sprinkled through out to prove it. I love this book.
:: GIVEAWAY ::
My dear (IRL) friend
Susan Kemmerer has challenged my feelings in more ways than one and encouraged me a lot as I think, consider, ponder the possibilities of (a future in) homeschooling. Susan is a wife, a mom to nine children (7 of which are boys) and a grandmother to six - with more on the way. I think. ;) She has written many a book, and curriculum to boot, and is the author of this blog...
Homeschool Supermom ... NOT! - When Grace Meets Homeschooling.
Follow her blog for another chance at winning! Just let me know in a comment..
Susan has agreed to donate a copy of her book - by the same title - as part of my GIVEAWAY today. Let me tell you! I have read and reread this book - always feeling encouraged and (yet!!) overwhelmed..
Because, when it is all said and done... I know it is all and only by God's Grace that anything can be done... and that is our only hope and where our expectation(s) should lie. I can't do this or anything by myself. ONLY Jesus! It is only by Jesus' help..that I can.
Susan and her husband, Dale, also run a home business:
School House Publishing. You are invited to explore their web-site at your leisure.
**Each comment counts as one entry towards our GIVEAWAY today! Share as many thoughts as you would like. I'm serious..
(This GIVEAWAY is now CLOSED.)
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In closing, I came across a selected piece, from an old book; Ideals and Moral Lessons, that I thought I would also share with you, today. This may read a bit outdated... but go ahead. Read anyway. What do you think??
The Test of Education
A
professor in the University of Chicago told his pupils that he should
consider them educated in the best sense of the word, when they could
say yes to every one of the fourteen questions he should put to them.
Here are the questions:
Has your education given you sympathy with all good causes and made you espouse them?
Has it made you public-spirited?
Has it made you brother to the weak?
Have you learned how to make friends and keep them?
Do you know what it is to be a friend yourself?
Can you look an honest man and a pure woman straight in the eye?
Will a lonely dog follow you in the street?
Can you be high-minded and happy in the meaner drudgeries of life?
Do you think washing dishes and hoeing corn just as compatible with high thinking as piano-playing or golf?
Are you good for anything to yourself? Can you be happy, alone?
Can you look out on the world and see anything except dollars and cents?
Can you look into a mud puddle by the wayside and see anything in the puddle but mud?
Can you look into the sky at night and see beyond the stars? Can your soul claim relationship with the Creator?
Do YOU feel educated - against this list? I cringe.
A few of them.. make me wonder if I shouldn't go
Back to School. (smile!)
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On the side: Here is a
link to
a simple habit that will make your kids smarter. In case you're looking for ways to make that happen. ;)
Take it for what it's worth.
What I find interesting about this article is that my husband and I have already been implementing this habit - wholeheartedly. No wonder we always hear Grandma say - "You (grand)kids are so smart!" lol. Who knew?
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Anyway. Thank you for coming by today. For hanging out! For reading. For sharing your thoughts and comments. I greatly appreciate it. Let me know what you think of those muffins - if you get a chance.
The Giveaway will wrap up on Tuesday Night at 10:00pm, EST. I will announce the winner sometime on Wednesday.
Have a great day!